so i was getting a bunch of gross asks in my inbox and i didnt know why and then one of my sweeter followers sent me a link to this fuckery so i thought i’d share. here’s the thing: this is not an isolated event. i get shit like this all the time. at least once a month someone directs me to some kind of thread where i am public discourse, always exploitative discussions regarding me and my body, and usually something to do with feminism. and this is the reality of many women online, fat women especially. whether im being disgustingly sexualized or mindlessly hated, i cant seem to win. all because i have the audacity to visibly exist on an online platform.
this is a post to clarify, since so many of you seemed to have forgotten: i am a person. i’m not a topic, i’m not an erotic fabrification, my body is not your forum. my existence isn’t meant to get you off and it isn’t meant for you to express your shitty bigoted opinions. who i am, how i look, what i do has nothing to do with you. i exist for myself and myself alone. i have interests, hobbies, passions, heart breaks, and triumphs. when i am dissected in this manner, with no regards to me as a person, without acknowledging that this is a breathing, living human being you are speaking about, it is hateful ignorance. it is an act of violent disrespect and blatant objectification. it is perpetuating the complete disregard for women’s bodies and their right to autonomy.
i am a person and i will be treated as such. i am not tolerating this or any hatespeech directed my way. i refuse to be reduced in this manner. i will continue to be the fabulous, vibrant woman of integrity i am and will do all that i can to stop anyone who decides this is an appropriate way to treat a human being. furthermore, im not blocking any names because if you feel comfortable enough to publicly speak so hatefully about someone, you can certainly reap what you sow. i hope you feel uncomfortable when the spotlight shines and there is visibility for your shitty actions.
so here’s my request: STOP engaging in this type of behavior. CALL OUT those who do. protect and, more importantly, respect women online and off. thanks for reading and have a nice day!
I dont understand people like this :O
It literally broke my heart reading is. And not only those “hatred” comments, also the “positive” ones, (those with “yeha i’d fuck it”)
I would be happy, if i got the proportions you got. Cause you definetly look great!. I got the proportions of a barbarian, and even though i dont feel bad or anything, i would like to change something.
That doesnt mean i feel ugly, completly uncomfortable or useless. If somebody would write me this, his head would end up in a mixer.
Not only they forget the fact, that some people are -ill- and are fat, chubby or anything else because of an -illness- they also try to find anything just to keep their heads out and to let their anger out. I dont understand such people.
Letting their problems out on someone, who doesnt deserve it.
Girl, your pictures are great and i love your strength.
Please read.. and reblog. For all the children who are/feel excluded. For all the children who have no friend. Because it is important. Because we ALL are important !
This is exactly why Kyle and I are having a Beauty and the Beast wedding. Because we have both felt rejected by society, and we have found solace in each other.
It is through each other that we found and learned to love ourselves.
If you ever wonder why I like the gaston character as my favorite villain this is why. He portrays something that I have pretty much noticed all my life.
I was bullied quite a bit when I was growing up, especially in my awkward middle School years. Society found nothing wrong with it , even going as far as to say it was normal for a child to go through what I was going through.
It’s sad but I made it through that.
When I look at gaston I see something I overcame as a child and it gives me a lot of strength now to know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that it’s the personality that truly makes someone beautiful.
That’s why I never judge anyone by their appearances but I actually get to know them.
This is why I love Beauty and the Beast so much. Its got a HELL of a lot of depth to it. For me it goes WAY beyond most other princess movies. And what it has to say is amazing.
Theres also this sort of parallel between Gaston and Beast where, in the beginning, beast wanted to own belle, just as gaston did. Belle only started to fall for the beast after he let her go. He let her go twice during the movie, the second time is when she finally returns to him and tells him that she loves him. She loves him because he does not seek to own her, and because he puts her feelings and emotions before his.
I just really love their relationship and I love this movie. More like Beauty and the Beast please.